During my career as a divorce attorney, I had a firsthand look at the struggles families faced during one of the toughest times in their lives. In addition to the legal and financial hurdles in divorce, I observed my clients suffering from emotional turmoil as they worked towards rebuilding their lives.
Now, as a mental health counselor, I am able to support the emotional needs of children and families during this complicated life transition. I find this incredibly fulfilling, knowing I can make a positive impact on people’s lives when they need it the most.
With my background as a family law attorney and specialized training in helping families heal from divorce and separation, I am here to guide my clients through these tough times and empower them with strength, coping skills, and hope for the future.
Here are some areas where I can help:
Divorce support for children
Divorce can be very difficult for children. When their parents separate or divorce, children often experience confusion, feelings of loss, and sadness. They might worry that they caused the divorce or fear they won’t see one of their parents anymore. Divorce can affect how children see themselves and the world around them. It can impact their friendships, self-esteem, and success in school.
I specialize in helping children navigate the challenges of divorce by providing them with a compassionate and age-appropriate understanding of this life-altering event. Using play-based interventions, I offer children a safe and nurturing space to act out the events and emotions tied to the divorce process. This allows children to process their experiences in a manner that feels natural to them, and aids in the development of resiliency necessary for coping with these life changes.
In my work with children, I use a variety of creative tools, such as art, interactive games, storytelling, puppets, sandtray, and other hands-on techniques. These methods are designed to engage my clients and nurture their emotional well-being. I help my young clients improve their communication skills, develop the ability to set healthy boundaries, and build self-confidence, all while gaining a deeper understanding of divorce and its effects.
Divorce support for teenagers
Teenagers face a unique set of challenges when their parents go through a divorce. They may experience a whirlwind of emotions, including anger, resentment, guilt, and sorrow.
I help teenagers express their feelings in a healthy manner, reduce their anxiety, and cope with stress and worry related to the divorce. I work with teenagers to improve their communication skills and find ways to minimize conflict in their relationships. I assist teens in making decisions related to where they want to live, adjusting to shared custody arrangements, and maintaining close relationships with both parents. I help teens envision their lives beyond the divorce itself and set healthy goals for the future.
Divorce support for parents
When parents go through a divorce, they naturally worry about their kids’ well-being. But armed with the right therapeutic know-how, parents can really make a positive difference in how their children cope with divorce.
I offer practical advice and plenty of resources to help parents be the best support system for their children during this difficult time. I emphasize creating a safe and open space where children can freely express their feelings, no matter how challenging. I remind parents about the importance of shielding their children from the nastiness of divorce, including any negativity or hostility between the parents. I also help with strengthening the bonds between parent and child and improve the way they communicate with one another. My goal is to help parents skillfully navigate the complexities of parenting during a divorce, ultimately promoting their children’s emotional well-being and resilience.
Divorce support for women
Divorce often stirs up complex emotions in women, including anger, fear, and occasionally, guilt. I am here to provide women with the support they need to navigate this challenging journey.
I offer a secure and nonjudgmental space for women to openly express their feelings, rebuild their self-esteem, and regain control over their lives. Together, we work to develop effective coping strategies and hope for the future. I strive to help women emerge from the divorce process with newfound confidence and optimism.
Child specialist in collaborative divorce
Whereas traditional divorce usually involves stress, conflict, and adversarial litigation, collaborative divorce is a mutually respectful process which highlights communication and cooperation to help people reach an amicable settlement outside of court. Oftentimes, there are children are involved.
As a child specialist in collaborative divorce cases, I work with children to identify their wishes related to their parents’ divorce and communicate their desires back to the parents and attorneys. I help families during collaborative divorce by ensuring their children’s voices are being heard and their needs are being met throughout the entire process. Through my role as a child specialist in collaborative divorce cases, I strive to improve the lives of children both during and after divorce.
At Robin Horvitz Counseling,
I am dedicated to helping children and families heal and grow stronger through the divorce process and afterwards. My experience in family law, coupled with my therapeutic training, ensures that I provide compassionate, supportive, and informed care to all my clients.
I understand that divorce can be one of the most difficult experiences for any family to go through. Please know that you don’t have to go through this challenging time alone. Call me to schedule a free consultation. I am here to support you along the way.
